Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

! J- ~8 @# g4 o3 cWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

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, g, U- O5 ~) m2 [/ b3 P4 ITry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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! @6 C8 S! W' Q2.        Speak up when she’s good
6 @5 A. e6 z' _. r  D" |# lIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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7 s1 Q, v( Z- |! [2 V) P1 \, L3.        Stay one step ahead
  g) {8 m# ]7 C+ c9 X/ e" F. aLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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) l4 R: \2 m8 E# q: G4 M1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
4 b3 T8 W7 N1 pTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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